Learning to dance for you wedding can be the most special gift that you and your spouse-to-be can give one another!  It could last a lifetime!  Feeling confident and poised when you dance together will ensure that your very first dance as Husband and Wife will be a memory that you and your family and friends will cherish forever.

That's why prospective brides and grooms, who want to give an exciting and fun First Dance on their big day, are increasingly opting to take dance lessons.  First dances are posted all over the internet these days.  It all looks so easy.  However, there is much to consider.  Tips from the experts:

bullet     MOST IMPORTANTLY - YOU MUST NOT WAIT UNTIL THE LAST MINUTE!  "I know couples who've spent more time choosing ribbon colors than working on their first dances!"  Not only will your schedule get very hectic as your wedding day approaches, but dancing is a sport.  There is no special book or video to watch to make learning to dance with your future spouse look and feel beautiful.  It takes TIME and PRACTICE, as do most things in life that are worthwhile.   Experts recommend starting four to six months earlier to allow  time for practice.  NO matter what anyone tries to sell you; waiting until the week before your wedding to try to learn to dance together will not be an experience you'd want to remember or repeat!

             Couples dancing is the art of two people moving together as a unit on the
          floor.  There is so much more involved than "just doing steps."  You will
          want you movements to look and feel effortless, whether your song is slow
          and elegant or fast and funky!  You never want to have the appearance of
          someone who's had one lesson and is desperately trying to "remember" what
          to do.  Who wants that added stress on the most important day of their
          lives?  Dancing is supposed to be enjoyed!

              Dancing IS MUSCLE MEMORY!  The only way to achieve muscle
           memory is to practice and repeat a movement over enough, so you DO
           NOT  HAVE TO THINK ABOUT IT!
  Dancing is only fun when it become
           second nature.  It is not possible to achieve this in 30 minutes or even 3
           hours & 30 minutes - even and especially if you had a ballet lesson when you
           were 5!  If you've never learned how to lead or follow someone, dancing
           is a new sport you are going to try to learn before your wedding day! Your
           dance will look and feel only as good as you want it to be!  You will only get
           out of the experience what you put into it!

bullet     IF you allow enough preparation time, dance lessons are not only a stress reliever, but also a wonderful form of exercise.  The lessons take you away from the hustle and bustle of the day, to spend quality time with your intended, having fun and working together.  It can also be a great way to maintain some romance
while planning the biggest event of your life!

              Waiting until the last minute will have the complete and opposite affect on
          your wedding planning and even on your relationship! 

bullet     Our wedding specialists are here to take the stress out of your First Dance as a married couple.  We will help you either pick your music, or show you the dance that goes with your song.  We suggest that your song be a reflection of your relationship; not just something someone mentioned you should dance to on your wedding day!  If the music doesn't move you; most likely, you will not want to spend the time and effort needed to perfect your dance!

   You should come to the studio armed with important information, such as the amount of dance space, the size of the gown, the type of shoes, how spectacular you want the dance to be, live band or dj, etc.  We will help you as much as we can! However, we ask that you put some thought into the most important dance of your life, so we may help you produce the best result possible!
 
bullet     We have many options available for the bride and groom, fathers and daughters, mothers and sons, as well as your entire wedding party.  Arthur Murray is here to help you!!  Gift certificates are available as well and make special gifts!

                       

Each bridal couple has a unique vision of their first dance.  The first step in preparing for your special day is the CONSULTATION.  The dance floor, reception space, first dances with family and friends, are some of the details to be considered.

For $40.00, we offer a complete consultation with a dance counselor, which will include a private dance lesson conducted by a dance specialist, to determine your abilities and desires.  By the end of the lesson, you will have enough information to make the right decision for YOU!

It is our pleasure to assist you in the dance of a lifetime!  (Just imagine the photographs and videos!)  Please keep in mind that it is ESSENTIAL to call us WELL IN ADVANCE of your big day to schedule your private consultation.

Don't wait until the last minute!  Call today!!  

540-774-1900

E-mail dancinroanoke@aol.com

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